Elina half woke up and started crying and wouldn't stop. I tried to console her but I couldn't understand what she wanted so her crying got louder and louder which made me angrier and angrier. I ended up spanking her which, of course, just made things worse. By this point her cries are OUT OF CONTROL. You'd think someone threw her off a damn balcony or broke her arm. That's how ridiculously loud and annoying her cry was! Anyways, Vili came in frustrated because I was yelling and being crazy and because he's trying to sleep for work (has to wake up at midnight to leave) but only made things a million times worse. I yelled at him to leave then continued to threaten and scream at Elina to shut the hell up. Who says that to their kid? Took over half an hour to get her to calm down. I'm surprised she is still alive.
I wanted to kill her!!! Seriously guys, I know I sound crazy but I don't know what to do. When she cries I just get angry. At least 95% of the time I get angry instead of motherly and concerned and that is not normal. I cannot handle her cry! I need to figure something out or I will for sure end up in jail.
Sincerely,
Worst Mom in the Universe
holy crap I know how you feel! PS not the worst mom, just A mom and it's a freaking tough job!!! My two cents, I tell my baby I'm going to squeeze him. I know that sounds crazy lol but I hold him so that he can't move and he fights it until I let him go after about 30 seconds or so. He tried to thrash around so hard that he's extra exhausted and rolls over and falls asleep.
ReplyDeleteOption 2: Cold shower. My cousin did this with her kid and to this day it's the best threat in the world for that kid. You take them in the bathtub and spray them with cold, cold water until they shut the hell up lol. I guess it would only work if you have a hand held shower head. Don't water board the kid, but you get the picture. If she wants you to stop the water she has to stop crying, it's up to her when the water stops.
Good luck! I wish each kid had a manual on what works for them...that would make life much easier...dammit
Thanks linds! I still gotta try this cold shower thing! Lol
Deletelol sorry nia i cracked up laughing reading this but you are sooooo right!!!! even with sosaia i spanked him and then i end up crying same time as him...lol
ReplyDeletelol! Gotta love our difficult children. Hahaha
Deletelol sorry nia i cracked up laughing reading this but you are sooooo right!!!! even with sosaia i spanked him and then i end up crying same time as him...lol
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